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Slow Down Therapy
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- Slow down; God is still in heaven. You are not responsible for
doing it all yourself, right now.
- Remember a happy, peaceful time in your past. Rest there. Each
moment has richness that takes a lifetime to savor.
- Set your own pace. When someone is pushing you, it's OK to tell
them they're pushing.
- Take nothing for granted: watch water flow, the corn grow, the
leaves blow, your neighbor mow.
- Taste your food. God gives it to delight as well as to nourish.
- Notice the sun and the moon as they rise and set. They are
remarkable for their steady pattern of movement, not their speed.
- Quit planning how you're going to use what you know, learn, or
possess. God's gifts just are; be grateful and their purpose
will be clear.
- When you talk with someone, don't think about what you'll say
next. Thoughts will spring up naturally if you let them.
- Talk and play with children. It will bring out the unhurried
little person inside you.
- Create a place in your home...at your work...in your
heart...where you can go for quiet and recollection.
You deserve it.
- Allow yourself time to be lazy and unproductive. Rest isn't
luxury; it's a necessity.
- Listen to the wind blow. It carries a message of yesterday and
tomorrow-and now. NOW counts.
- Rest on your laurels. They bring comfort whatever their size,
age, or condition.
- Talk slower. Talk less. Don't talk. Communication isn't
measured by words.
- Give yourself permission to be late sometimes. Life is for
living, not scheduling.
- Listen to the song of a bird; the complete song. Music and
nature are gifts, but only if you are willing to receive them.
- Take time just to think. Action is good and necessary, but it's
fruitful only if we muse, ponder, and mull.
- Make time for play-the things you like to do. Whatever your age,
your inner child needs re-creation.
- Watch and listen to the night sky. It speaks.
- Listen to the words you speak, especially in prayer.
- Learn to stand back and let others take their turn as
leaders.There will always be new opportunities for you to
step out in front again.
- Divide big jobs into little jobs. If God took six days to create
the universe, can you hope to do any better?
- When you find yourself rushing and anxious, stop. Ask yourself
"WHY?" you are rushing and anxious. The reasons may improve your
self-understanding.
- Take time to read the Bible. Thoughtful reading is enriching
reading.
- Direct your life with purposeful choices, not with speed
and efficiency. The best musician is one who plays with
expression and meaning, not the one who finishes first.
- Take a day off alone; make a retreat. You can learn from monks
and hermits without becoming one.
- Pet a furry friend. You will give and get the gift of now.
- Work with your hands. It frees the mind.
- Take time to wonder. Without wonder, life is merely existence.
- Sit in the dark. It will teach you to see and hear, taste and
smell.
- Once in a while, turn down the lights, the volume, the throttle,
the invitations. Less really can be more.
- Let go. Nothing is usually the hardest thing to do - but often
it is the best.
- Take a walk-but don't go anywhere. If you walk just to get
somewhere, you sacrifice the walking.
- Count your friends. If you have one, you are lucky. If you have
more, you are blessed. Bless them in return.
- Count your blessings - one at a time and slowly

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